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When we say we have a personal relationship, what do we mean? When Christians say they have a personal relationship with Jesus, what do they mean?
In the fall of 2020, shortly before the election, I was traveling to town and listening to the radio. Rush Limbaugh was on and talking about his bout with lung cancer. Although it seemed that he had been making some progress in his battle, things had turned for the worse. The current prognosis was not good. He was talking about facing approaching death and making references to God, and then declared, “I have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.”
What did he mean? I think that many Christians, including me, would explain Rush’s declaration as meaning he had chosen to believe that Jesus is the Son of God and the death of Jesus on the cross was payment for sin, and as a believer, he is “born again.” For many Christians, this “personal relationship” would be a guarantee of eternal life and the avoidance of perishing, as clearly stated in John 3:16.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16).
Simply put, those who have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ will go to heaven when they die and will not go to hell. However, as wonderful as that is, for many believers a personal relationship with Jesus means much more. We will explore this much more later, but let us look more closely at the concept or category of “personal relationship”. Make this personal for you as you follow along.
A personal relationship has an object. We may joke about that object being something other than a person, such as a pet or car. There may be even some sense to having a personal relationship with a pet, but we want to think of personal relationships with people. A personal relationship is person-to-person.
Those persons have names. It seems silly to claim a personal relationship with someone whose name you do not know. Personal seems to imply a degree of closeness, a degree of direct contact, and a degree of knowledge about each other.
My most important and closest personal relationship is with my wife.
Although my parents have now passed, I had a personal relationship with my dad and a personal relationship with my mom. I also have a personal relationship with each of my four siblings. Each sibling had a personal relationship with mom and dad, and each of us siblings have a personal relationship with each other. This becomes a whole bunch of personal relationships, and each is unique.
Personal relationships are singular in nature. That is, one person and one person for a total of two people. Personal relationships cannot be a group thing. Although most people have many personal relationships, each one is unique and, in a sense, solitary. Usually, there is an element of privacy and secrecy. This is what makes it personal. There is exclusivity because a personal relationship is made up of only two people. Personal relationships may be talked about and even described, but a personal relationship can only be experienced by the two people in the relationship.
Perhaps a visual will be helpful. Follow along with me. Visualize a circle, and within the circle are the two people who have a personal relationship. Everyone else is outside that circle. This is not an act of rejection of those outside the circle, but it is necessary for the reality of there being a personal relationship.
All personal relationships are not equal, even though each is unique. My personal relationship with my wife is very close. Much of the relationship is private and secret, and that is the way it should be. Our close personal relationship is very valuable to us, and many elements of it are very precious. We consciously work to keep our personal relationship strong and secure.
Throughout a person’s life, they will likely have many relationships that could be considered personal. There is a continuum of relative closeness in those personal relationships. Some are not really close and probably could be in the category of being only acquaintances rather than a category of personal relationship. Some are very close and may be lifelong. Some are temporary, and for various reasons, separation occurs as a result of circumstances. One person moves away and contact is lost. When one person passes away, the personal relationship comes to an end. Some personal relationships are broken and end because of conflict and estrangement.
With that background about personal relationships, let us go back to exploring the meaning of a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. When I conducted a word search in Scripture, I found no matches for the term “personal relationship.” My conclusion is that the phrase, as used by Christians, represents an understanding of the relationship that a believer has with Jesus Christ. Earlier, we concluded that the definition of a personal relationship was the exclusive relationship between two people. Based on that idea, a personal relationship with Jesus would be a relationship between a person and God.
This idea requires some contemplation. First of all, God has a relationship with everyone because He is the creator, and everyone was created. This may be personal from God’s point of view because He knows everything, He thoroughly knows each individual that He has created. The same could be said for all of creation. However, we know that every individual does not acknowledge that they were created by God. Actually, many people actively deny that they were created by God. Look at how David, the Psalmist, describes us as created beings. This Psalm describes the personal involvement of the Lord in the creation of each person.
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand— when I awake, I am still with you (Psalms 139:13-18).
Then we must consider the unique characteristics of people in God’s creation. People are different than the rest of creation. Scriptures say we are image-bearers. This is not said about any of the rest of creation. Think about it. In the Genesis story, God spoke and creation happened, but He made Adam out of the dust of the earth and Eve from Adam’s rib. It appears the Lord added a personal touch to the original creation of mankind. That is kind of nice and special.
So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them (Genesis 1:27).
Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God (James 3:9 NLT).
However, we still have not come to what it means to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Based on our thinking, we must assume that a personal relationship with Jesus means one person and Jesus. Also, based on our thinking, we can safely assume that many people could have a personal relationship with Jesus, but it would be exclusive for each one, just that person and Jesus.
Now every personal relationship begins with an initial encounter. There was a first time the two parties met. This is basic. When we encounter two people who seem to have a personal relationship, such as a husband and wife, it is not unusual to ask when or where they meet. That happened to my wife and me this last weekend. It is also not unusual for two people to know about each other before they actually meet.
So, we can safely assume that many people may know about Jesus, perhaps know a great deal about Him, but have not met Him. Perhaps they have not been thinking of Jesus as being a person. Clearly, Jesus is a person. That is the amazing thing about the incarnation.
The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth (John 1:14).
In order for there to be a personal relationship with Jesus, there has to be that initial meeting. A prerequisite to that meeting is an acknowledgment of the existence of Jesus, followed by acknowledging His existence as a person. Here is where the comparison of personal relationships person to person with a personal relationship person to God takes a turn. People are visible, but God is invisible. Also, a person in a personal relationship with Jesus is not equal to Jesus. Mankind and God are not equals.
However, there was a time when Jesus was visible even though at this period in time, He is not visible. The stories of His birth, ministry, crucifixion, resurrection, and ascension are well documented and celebrated throughout Christianity. In the New Testament, we have many eyewitness accounts about Jesus. This is my favorite.
That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched—this we proclaim concerning the Word of life. The life appeared; we have seen it and testify to it, and we proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and has appeared to us. We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. We write this to make our joy complete (1 John 1:1-4).
Therefore, the initial meeting with Jesus must begin with belief or faith in His existence. This verse states this clearly.
And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him (Hebrews 11:6).
Facts to point out in this verse: There is the impossibility of pleasing God without faith. There is the essential of believing in His existence. There is the requirement of diligently seeking Him. There is a reward for diligently seeking Him. What is that reward? Finding Him.
So, how does this initial encounter with Jesus happen? We can conclude that there is a factor of believing, as clearly stated in John 3:16 as quoted earlier, and also clearly stated in the verse from Hebrews we just read. But is that the initiating event?
there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God (Romans 3:11).
Well, that verse eliminates any created person being the initiator. Therefore, it must be God who initiates the personal relationship.
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love (Ephesians 1:4).
For we know, brothers and sisters loved by God, that he has chosen you (1 Thessalonians 1:4).
who have been chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood: Grace and peace be yours in abundance (1 Peter 1:2).
And you also are among those Gentiles who are called to belong to Jesus Christ (Romans 1:6).
To all in Rome who are loved by God and called to be his holy people: Grace and peace to you from God our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ (Romans 1:7).
Jude, a servant of Jesus Christ and a brother of James, To those who have been called, who are loved in God the Father and kept for Jesus Christ (Jude 1).
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose (Romans 8:28).
Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, To God’s elect, exiles scattered throughout the provinces of Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia and Bithynia (1 Peter 1:1).
From these verses, it is clear that each person with a personal relationship with Jesus was chosen. Each one was chosen by the foreknowledge of God and chosen before the foundation of the world. This reveals the omniscience attribute of God, who knows everything and has always known everything.
Not only was each person chosen, but each was also called. Notice: called to belong to Jesus Christ, called to be kept for Jesus Christ, called to be his holy people, and called for his purpose. Also, we are His elect.
For believers, it is no accident that they are believers. The fact that each one is a believer in Jesus was planned by God. We can be assured that if God plans something, it happens. We know that God’s plans are not bound by time. That is why the act of a believer being chosen by God occurred before the foundations of the world. So, there is no place for boasting by believers that they are believers because Scripture establishes that it was all God’s doing.
This still leaves us with the question: when was the first encounter in time and space that led to the personal relationship with Jesus? For the Apostle Paul, it was a dramatic encounter on the road to Damascus. For me, it was as a twelve-year-old boy when I made my public profession of faith. Could it have been sometime earlier, before my public profession? I do not really know, but I do remember the public profession, and it was very significant for me.
If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved (Romans 10:9-10).
Each believer has some sense of that first encounter, and the story of the first encounter may be given as a testimony. Believers often like to ask each other: When did you come to Jesus?
Paul says the gospel is mysterious:
Pray also for me, that whenever I speak, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel (Ephesians 6:19).
My conclusion is that each believer at some point decided to believe that Jesus was the Son of God, with further understanding of the significance that He died for their sins and was raised from the dead. At that point, the essentials for the personal relationship with Jesus were established. Going back to our personal relationship model of a circle, this is the point where the believer enters the circle with Jesus.
We want to remember that in all our exploration about the nature of a personal relationship, we have at this point only addressed the matter of an initial encounter, which is essential for there even to be a personal relationship. Obviously, for a personal relationship, there needs to be much more. The much more includes knowing each other. This assumes time spent together. It also assumes there is a sense in which the personal relationship grows. We also assume that there is a correlation between increased knowledge of each other and time spent together, and the growth of the personal relationship.
Once again, the uniqueness of a personal relationship with Jesus comes into play. Only the believer can increase in knowledge of Jesus. Jesus already knows all about the believer. Remember, Jesus knows everything and always has and always will. Only the believer can control the time involved in getting to know Jesus better. Time together means being in each other’s presence. Jesus is always present.
However, the believer is not just dependent on their own willpower and own motivation to get to know Jesus better. God’s plan for developing that personal relationship includes providing the believer with the indwelling Holy Spirit.
As Jesus explained to Nicodemus in John chapter 3, Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.” (John 3:3). Nicodemus did not understand so Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. You should not be surprised at my saying, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.” (John 3:5-8).
The wind is invisible. Think about it. We cannot see the wind, but we can see its effects.
This is foundational understanding for the basis of becoming a believer and having the capacity to enter into a personal relationship with Jesus. A change must take place in a person to become a believer. The change is a Spiritual event by an act of God. Literally, the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in the person.
Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? (1 Corinthians 3:16).
Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own (1 Corinthians 6:19).
And now you Gentiles have also heard the truth, the Good News that God saves you. And when you believed in Christ, he identified you as his own by giving you the Holy Spirit, whom he promised long ago (Ephesians 1:13 NLT).
What an amazing fact! The Holy Spirit is actually in the believer. What does the Holy Spirit do? The Holy Spirit speaks to and teaches believers. The Holy Spirit convicts and gives joy. Look at these verses.
But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you (John 14:26).
for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say.” (Luke 12:12).
because our gospel came to you not simply with words but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction. You know how we lived among you for your sake. You became imitators of us and of the Lord, for you welcomed the message in the midst of severe suffering with the joy given by the Holy Spirit (1 Thessalonians 1:5-6).
Let us think about quantifying personal relationships. Personal relationships can be placed on a continuum, going from very close to not very close. Can you picture this? What variables are at play in determining the closeness of a personal relationship?
Motivation is one variable. How motivated are the people to have a close personal relationship? For a relationship to be even classified as a personal relationship, there had to be some motivating desire to have a personal relationship. But motivation can be quantified from slightly motivated to very motivated. Let us apply this variable to having a personal relationship with Jesus. The will of a person comes into play. Does a person really want a close personal relationship with Jesus? Does a person really want to be a Jesus follower? The motivation of Jesus is not in question.
For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost (Luke 19:10).
Time is another variable. Time can be measured. How much time is spent with the person in a personal relationship? Time with Jesus consists of time in His Word, time in prayer, time in meditation, time in worship, time thinking about Him, and time listening to Him. A person has control of their time. Time is not an issue on the part of Jesus in a personal relationship with Him.
…And surely, I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)
. …”Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5).
Knowledge is another variable. Closeness in a personal relationship is linked with how well and how much the people know each other. This knowledge includes knowing interests, preferences, concerns, desires, accomplishments, and sometimes failures. The amount and depth of knowledge are growing as the personal relationship deepens. In a personal relationship with Jesus, we have already established the depth and thoroughness of the knowledge of Jesus about each person. What about a person’s knowledge of Jesus? Scripture speaks to the importance of more and deeper knowledge of Jesus. To move closer to Jesus in a personal relationship with Him, a person must come to know Him better.
I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better (Ephesians 1:17).
I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death (Philippians 3:10 NLT).
But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen (2 Peter 3:18).
May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord 2 Peter 1:2 NLT).
The more you grow like this, the more productive and useful you will be in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ (2 Peter 1:8).
so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God (Colossians 1:10).
Commitment is another variable. Commitment speaks to the quality of being “for” each other in a personal relationship. Commitment involves loyalty and support. The phrase, “I am on your side,” comes to mind. In a personal relationship with Jesus, a person is loyal. We can say Jesus must be first. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith… (Hebrews 12:2). The all-knowing and all-caring Jesus keeps His eyes on the person.
The LORD says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you (Psalms 32:2).
Submission is another variable. Submission to each other in a close personal relationship is voluntary and is not done out of fear or coercion. Submission involves an act of the will. Submission says, “I will” rather than “I won’t.” In considering the issue of the will in a personal relationship with Jesus, it becomes one-sided. It is the person who must be willing to submit to Jesus. In a sense, Jesus has already submitted Himself to the person in that by becoming a man and dying on the cross, He has completely met all the needs of the person. So, let us ponder some verses that address a person submitting their will to Jesus.
You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised (Hebrews 10:36).
You won’t spend the rest of your lives chasing your own desires, but you will be anxious to do the will of God (1 Peter 4:2).
Anyone who chooses to do the will of God will find out whether my teaching comes from God or whether I speak on my own (John 7:17).
Love and caring are variables. When we think of a personal relationship, we are thinking positively. It is hard to imagine a personal relationship that does not include a sense of love or at least affection demonstrated with acts of caring. In a personal relationship with Jesus, the factor of love and caring from Jesus is beyond questioning. “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends (John 15:13). Remember John 3:16.
Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and thrown into the fire tomorrow, he will certainly care for you. Why do you have so little faith? (Luke 12:28 NLT).
Give your burdens to the LORD, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall (Psalms 55:22 NLT).
For the person in a personal relationship with Jesus, love is expressed in obedience and is linked with the variable of submission.
“If you love me, obey my commandments (John 14:15).
In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome (1 John 5:3).
Let us explore more deeply into the uniqueness of a personal relationship with Jesus by looking at the implications and impact of the person being indwelt with the Holy Spirit. Look closely at this verse:
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! (1 Corinthians 5:17).
The born-again believer in a personal relationship with Jesus is a new person, a new creation. Let that sink in!
You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (Ephesians 4:22-24).
This means that the born-again believer in a personal relationship with Jesus exercises their will by choosing to put off the old and put on the new. The believer has a new mind. This new capacity enables the person to have a closer personal relationship with Jesus. These verses show the seriousness of having a personal relationship with Jesus because clearly, only those who are believers can have a personal relationship with Jesus.
Scripture provides some models or illustrations of what a personal relationship with Jesus looks like. A favorite of mine is the example of a shepherd and sheep from John 10:1-18. I am going to offer a few selections from the passage. You may want to read the whole passage.
The one who enters by the gate is the shepherd of the sheep. The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice (John 10:2-4).
“I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep (John 10:11).
“I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— (John 10:14).
Notice all the personal relationship terms: the sheep listen to his voice, He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out, all his own, he goes on ahead of them, his sheep follow him, they know his voice, and I know my sheep and my sheep know me. You can sense the closeness in these phrases and also see examples of the variables.
Another illustration is found in John 15:1-8 in the example of the vine and branches. I am going to offer a few selections from the passage. You may want to read the whole passage.
“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing (John 15:5).
Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me (John 15:4).
If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples (John 15:7-8).
Again, you can sense the closeness in these phrases and also see examples of the variables. Notice all the personal relationship terms: Remain in me, I also remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you, and showing yourselves to be my disciples.
What is the dynamic of a close personal relationship? It is a safe, comfortable place where the variables, motivation, time, knowledge, commitment, submission, love, and caring are experienced. There is a sense of valuing each other. There is a sense of loyalty. It is a very desirable place.
An interesting development occurs in this dynamic. The two parties begin to become alike. The personal relationship develops a commonality and a strong sense of agreement. Although each continues to have its individual distinctiveness, the alikeness becomes very comfortable and satisfying. The commonality is the fruit of living within the variables. Close personal relationships are a heart’s desire for people because people are created in the image of God.
Although it is beyond human capacity to grasp the Holy Trinity, what can be seen from Scripture is that the relationship within the Trinity is a close personal relationship. The Trinity declares to be One. In the gospels, we can get a glimpse of the close personal relationship between Jesus and His Father. Listen to what Jesus says:
I and the Father are one.” (John 10:30).
The one who sent me is with me; he has not left me alone, for I always do what pleases him.” (John 8:29).
How about the dynamic of a close personal relationship with Jesus? Does a commonality develop? Not only does commonality develop, but that is the goal of a close personal relationship with Jesus. In a close personal relationship with Jesus, the person begins to become like Jesus. To be clear, Jesus is God, and the person does not become God but change happens for the person. How does that happen? First of all, it begins to happen at the rebirth when the Holy Spirit enters the believer. We have already looked at this at length.
The personal relationship with Jesus includes several factors. We have already noted that the person and Jesus are not equals. Jesus is the Savior, and the person is the saved one. Since Jesus is Lord, there is the important matter of obedience to Him. Jesus is King, and the person is a subject. There is a family relationship, which means the person is a child. None of these distinctives interferes with the capacity to have a personal relationship with Jesus. Actually, they enhance it.
Let us look at some verses:
for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.” (1 Peter 1:6).
There is an expectation that the person in a personal relationship with Jesus will be holy. How is that possible? We already looked at the process of putting off the old self and putting on the new self. We learned that a believer has been given a new mind.
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will (Romans 12:2).
In many places, Scripture indicates that there is a way that things work in the Kingdom of God, and it is different than the way things work in the world. They are in opposition to each other. For the present time, the believer is in the world, but notice the world is in opposition to the Kingdom of God.
You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God (James 4:4).
The following verses are taken from Jesus’s prayer to His Father for His disciples and believers at the Last Supper.
If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you (John 15:19).
My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one (John 17:15).
I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours (John 17:9).
My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message (John 17:20).
Now, back to commonality.
And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit (2 Corinthians 3:18).
This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus (1 John 4:17).
Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is (1 John 3:2).
Just as personal relationships grow, so does the transformation to becoming more like Jesus happen in a believer’s personal relationship with Jesus. The instructions in Scripture pertaining to a Jesus follower’s behavior toward God and others are founded in expressions of love. As the practice of obedience to Jesus increases, the becoming like Jesus increases.
A result of a growing personal relationship with Jesus is that a person bears fruit that is useful in the Kingdom of God and benefits others. The effect of a personal relationship with Jesus is good works that have been prepared for the person by God’s plan, and the person has also been prepared to do those good works. Look closely at these verses.
For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do (Ephesians 2:10).
And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work (2 Corinthians 9:8).
All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work (2 Timothy 3:16-17).
Oswald Chambers, in his book My Utmost for His Highest, says:
There is only one relationship that really matters, and this is your personal relationship to your personal Redeemer and Lord. If you maintain that at all costs, letting everything else go, God will fulfill His purpose through your life. One individual life may be of priceless value to God’s purposes, and yours may be that life.
In conclusion, I must ask, “Why would anyone not want to have a personal relationship with Jesus?” Think of these words that Jesus said about being in a personal relationship with Him.
I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete (John 15:11).
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